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What Does 'God is Love' Mean in the Scriptures of 1 John 4?

God is love sounds sweet, but is it actually in the Bible? Here's what Scripture tells us about God's character and feelings toward humanity.

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Updated Jun 19, 2024
What Does 'God is Love' Mean in the Scriptures of 1 John 4?

God is love. That’s a bold statement, but the Bible clearly states that God is love. Yet, when we look at the world we live in and our own experiences, it’s easy to question if God really is love. So, let’s dig deeper. Let’s look at where the Bible talks about God actually being love and some of the implications for our lives. “God is love” is a simple statement, yet there is power and depth in those three simple words. Let’s dive in.

Where Does the Bible Say God Is Love?

Throughout the Bible, we see God’s character and love for humanity. God’s love spills over into every book of the Bible, yet some verses specifically state God is love. So that we have no doubts about it! 

1 John 4:8 states, “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love (emphasis added). 

If we keep reading, we come to verse 16 in the same chapter, “And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them” (emphasis added).

I highly recommend reading 1 John 4:7-21 to see these verses in their full context. The apostle John is writing about loving others. In verse 7, he writes, “Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God.” We are instructed to love others but don’t have to muster that love on our own. The love we give to others comes from God because He is love

Ronald Sauer’s contribution to The Moody Bible Commentary helps us understand this better. In his notes on 1 John 4:7-8, he writes: 

“Love has as its ultimate source God. That a believer loves others suggests that he or she has a relationship with God. If one loves God, he will love what God loves, and in this context that is especially other believers... Loving others is not the cause but an effect of the new birth. As a member of the heavenly family, the believer reflects that family trait of love... It is impossible to be a recipient of God’s love and to come into relationship with Him without subsequently showing that same love to others, especially, but not exclusively, to other Christians.” (The Moody Bible Commentary, 1981-1982)

What Does 'God is Love' Really Mean?

When we say "God is love," it’s not just a comforting phrase; it’s a profound truth that has the power to transform our understanding of God and how we relate to Him. Let's take a look at what this truly means for us, drawing from Scripture what it means that God is love and how it changes our living.

God’s Love is Unconditional and Unfailing

First and foremost, understanding that "God is love" means recognizing that His love for us is unconditional. It’s not based on what we do or don’t do; it’s rooted in His very nature. This kind of love is beautifully described in 1 John 4:8, which states, “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.” This verse tells us that love is an essential aspect of who God is. It’s not just something He does; it’s who He is.

Theologian and author C.S. Lewis wrote, "Though our feelings come and go, God's love for us does not." This assurance can be a source of immense comfort, reminding us that even when we falter, God's love remains steadfast. His love is a constant in our lives, unshaken by our failures or successes.

God’s Love is Sacrificial

To understand God's love, we must also recognize its sacrificial nature. The ultimate demonstration of this love is found in the sacrifice of Jesus Christ. John 3:16 declares, “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” This verse encapsulates the essence of God’s sacrificial love—a love that is willing to give everything for our salvation.

Famous evangelist Billy Graham once said, “God proved His love on the Cross. When Christ hung, and bled, and died, it was God saying to the world, ‘I love you.’” This powerful statement underscores that God's love is not just in words but is vividly expressed through actions, the greatest of which was Jesus’ sacrifice for us.

God’s Love Transforms Us

When we truly grasp that God is love, it transforms how we live and interact with others. We are called to reflect this divine love in our own lives. As we experience God’s love, it changes us from the inside out. We become more compassionate, more forgiving, and more willing to serve others.

Mother Teresa, known for her selfless service to the poor, famously said, "Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love." This reflects the idea that experiencing God’s love compels us to act lovingly toward others, no matter how small the act. It’s about letting God’s love flow through us into the lives of those around us.

God’s Love is a Call to Action

Finally, knowing that "God is love" is a call to action for each of us. We are not just passive recipients of this love; we are active participants. In 1 John 4:19, we read, “We love because he first loved us.” This means our ability to love others stems directly from the love God has shown us. It’s a cycle of love that begins with God and flows through us to the world.

Author and pastor Max Lucado puts it this way: “God loves you just the way you are, but He refuses to leave you that way. He wants you to be just like Jesus.” This quote highlights the transformative power of God’s love—it accepts us as we are but also calls us to grow and become more like Christ in our actions and attitudes.

Does "God Is Love" Mean We Can Do Anything?

If God is love, does that mean we can get away with anything? That’s an interesting question. The short answer is no, but let’s unpack that answer.

We know that God is love, and in His love, He sent Jesus into the world to save us (John 3:16-17). 

But we can’t stop there. In Romans 5:20-21 the apostle Paul tells us that where sin increased, grace increased more. He explains that grace reigns through righteousness to bring eternal life through Jesus Christ.

But we can’t stop there either. In Romans 6, Paul tells us how we are to live in light of God’s incredible gift to us. Here are a few powerful verses from that chapter, though I recommend reading the whole thing.

“We are those who have died to sin; how can we live in it any longer?” (Romans 6:2).

“For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body ruled by sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin—because anyone who has died has been set free from sin” (Romans 6:6-7).

“For sin shall no longer be your master, because you are not under the law, but under grace.” (Romans 6:14)

We are no longer sinners when we place our faith in Jesus Christ. In Christ Jesus, we are a new creation. The old has gone and the new has arrived (2 Corinthians 5:17). Even though we have been set free from sin and died to sin, there are times we will still sin because we’re human. God offers forgiveness, yet there are consequences when we sin. Hebrews 10 talks about the sacrifice Jesus made and how that impacts our life with Him. We’re encouraged to draw near to God with a sincere heart. 

There are dire consequences when we intentionally walk away from God and choose sin over Him. Hebrews 10:26-27 says, “If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left, but only a fearful expectation of judgment and of raging fire that will consume the enemies of God.”

Biblical Examples of God's Love

Understanding God's love becomes clearer when we look at how it is demonstrated throughout the Bible. These stories and teachings offer profound insights into the depth and nature of God's love, showing us that it is steadfast, sacrificial, and unconditional.

The Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32)

One of the most poignant illustrations of God’s love is the parable of the prodigal son. Jesus tells the story of a young man who demands his inheritance early, squanders it in reckless living, and ends up destitute. In his desperation, he decides to return home, expecting to be treated as a servant. However, his father sees him from a distance, runs to him, and embraces him warmly, celebrating his return with a grand feast. This parable vividly portrays God’s unconditional love and readiness to forgive us, no matter how far we have strayed.

The Good Shepherd (John 10:11-18)

In John 10, Jesus describes Himself as the Good Shepherd who lays down His life for the sheep. This metaphor illustrates the protective and sacrificial nature of God's love. A good shepherd knows each of his sheep by name and is willing to face danger to ensure their safety. Jesus, the ultimate Good Shepherd, sacrificed His life for us, demonstrating the highest form of love.

God's Covenant with Israel (Deuteronomy 7:7-9)

Throughout the Old Testament, God’s steadfast love for Israel is a recurring theme. Despite their repeated disobedience, God remains faithful to His covenant. Deuteronomy 7:7-9 highlights that God chose Israel not because of their numbers or righteousness but because of His love and the promises made to their ancestors. This steadfast, covenantal love reassures us that God’s love is based on His character and promises, not our performance.

Jesus' Sacrifice (John 3:16)

Perhaps the most well-known verse in the Bible, John 3:16, encapsulates the essence of God's love: "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life." This verse highlights the sacrificial aspect of God's love, showing that He was willing to give His only Son to save humanity. Jesus' life, death, and resurrection are the ultimate demonstrations of God's love, providing a path to reconciliation and eternal life.

The Healing of the Leper (Mark 1:40-45)

In Mark 1, a man with leprosy approaches Jesus, begging to be healed. Jesus, moved with compassion, reaches out and touches the man, healing him instantly. This act not only demonstrates Jesus' power but also His willingness to touch and heal those considered untouchable and unclean by society. It’s a powerful example of how God's love transcends social boundaries and brings restoration and dignity to the marginalized.

These biblical examples illustrate that God's love is not just a comforting idea but a transformative force that reaches out, heals, and restores. By understanding and reflecting on these stories, we can grasp the depth of God's love and its implications for our lives.

How to Reconcile God's Love With God's Anger

God is love, and He loves us so much. He made the ultimate sacrifice by sending His Son, Jesus Christ, to earth to save us from our sins and restore the broken relationship between Himself and us. Yet God is a holy and just God. When we reject His offer of love and forgiveness and embrace sin instead, we’re left with the consequences of that sin and fall under God’s wrath instead of the blood of Jesus.

We have all sinned and fallen short of God’s glory of God (Romans 3:23). What are the wages of sin? According to Romans 6:23, death. But God in His great love for us offers all of humanity an incredible gift. The second half of Romans 6:23 explains that God’s gift is eternal life in Jesus.

I love how Wayne Grudem describes this truth in Systematic Theology:

“God could have let all of us go on our self-chosen path toward eternal condemnation. Had God decided to save no one out of the entire sinful human race, he would be perfectly just to do so, and no one could complain of unfairness on his part... But God in fact has chosen to do much more than that. He has decided to redeem out of sinful mankind a great multitude, whom no man can number, ‘from every tribe and tongue and people and nation’ (Rev. 5:9). This is incalculable mercy and love, far beyond our comprehension. It is all undeserved favor: it is all grace.” (Systematic Theology page 403)

God is love. His love is available to each of us, no matter what we have done in the past. God made a way to save us—His quirky creation that He loves. Will you choose Him? Will you accept the gift God gave us in Jesus’ death on the cross and resurrection from the dead? Jesus conquered sin and death once and for all. He took the penalty we deserve. As Isaiah 53:5 reminds us, Jesus “the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed.” Will you accept the free gift offered to you and allow the love of God to embrace you and the peace of God to fill your heart? It’s the hardest and the easiest thing you’ll ever do! 

If you declare with your moth, ‘Jesus is Lord,’ and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.” (Romans 10:9-11)

Prayers Thanking God for His Love

Lord God, I know I deserve judgment. I know that I have sinned and fallen far short of Your glory. Thank You, Lord, for making a way. Thank You for loving me. I believe that Jesus is Lord. I believe that He died on the cross for my sins. I believe You raised Him from the dead, God. I believe in You and rejoice today because I know I am saved from an eternity apart from You. Thank You for offering me new, abundant, and eternal life. Wow! Thank You, God! Amen.

God, You are so good. I know You demand justice, and I can never meet Your holy expectations. You know all these things, so You gave us Your own Son, Jesus. Thank You for this incredible sacrifice. Thank You for displaying Your holy character of love when I don’t deserve it. Thank You for loving, pursuing, and holding me tight when life gets hard. Thank You for forgiveness and grace. I love You, God. Amen.

Thank You, God, that You are love. Thank You for all of the incredible ways that You love me. Please help me to love others like You love me and like You love them. I want the family characteristic of love to flow out of me toward those around me. Thank You that I can love others because You are love! Amen. 

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Josie Siler writer Salem Web NetworkPassionate about helping people find joy for their journey, Josie Siler, a small-town Wisconsin girl, has big dreams. As an author and photographer, Josie shares God’s gifts of beauty, hope, and adventure with people who are overwhelmed by life’s circumstances, encouraging them to walk in the freedom and joy found in Jesus. Josie is the author of the award-winning picture book, Howie’s Broken Hee-Haw, published by End Game Press. She's also a chronic illness warrior who believes every day is a gift that should be celebrated. When she’s not writing or taking pictures, you’ll find Josie looking for adventure, curled up with a good book, or cuddling her teddy bear dog Ruby Mae (a.k.a. The Scruffy Princess). Connect with Josie at JosieSiler.com


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