A Prayer When You Don’t Know What to Do - Your Daily Prayer - January 11

A Prayer When You Don’t Know What to Do  
By Kelly Balarie

Bible Reading:
“Do everything in love.” –  1 Corinthians 16:14

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Paralyzed in action, but still able to launch a prayer – I paced the hallways in the morning, sought God in my quiet time, and asked for direction in the night. I uttered the prayer, “What do you want me to do, God?” 

“Do you want me to do this… or do you want me to do that…?”

Silence. 

“Again, Father, I don’t know what to do.”

Nothing.

Later, “Help, Father.”

No answer.

What do we do when we want to do His will, but we still don’t know – entirely – what it is?   

It’s aggravating, isn’t it? Infuriating at times, I admit. 

Sometimes, I want so much to know that I don’t know how to go.

I get all balled up in stress trying to make the right choice. I want to pick perfectly. Sure, I don’t want to strive, yet I want a meaningful life. And maybe there’s too much of a me-focus in all this. Too much emphasis on my own decision-making timeline. And perhaps this is why God isn’t answering.

Do you feel the pressure of making a decision, like I do? Do you place hard, time-oriented demands on the process of knowing?
 
Last night, I lay in bed, and the thought hit me, “What if God cares more about how my heart is postured than what I do for Him?” 

That was a thought! 

Love is paramount, after all!  Love never fails, scripture says (1 Cor. 13:8). 

What if the answer to what to do, how to move, and what it looks like to proceed is actually love? Love Him. Love them. Love the wait. Love His Word. Love myself as I discern God’s leading.

Rather than hating the wait, I can choose patience in the process and loving kindness towards myself as I proceed on God’s timeline. Instead of distress, I delight myself in the Lord.  

Won’t He work out the gap? Won’t He provide the answer? Won’t He come through? 
 
 I trust God when I wait well.  

Waiting well looks like avoiding distress and enduring in love.

1 Corinthians 16:14 says, “Do everything in love.”

When decisions have to be made, we can ask ourselves, “Will this produce more love in my life – toward God, myself, and others – or will it reduce love?”

Here, we can do all things, including making decisions, in love.

Let’s Pray:

Father, I need help with the direction I should take. I don’t know what to do, but I know I want to do it with You. I know I want to go Your way. Will you lead me? Will you guide me? Will you instruct me in the way I should go? Will you lead me on Your paths of love?

Jesus, You are The Way. I ask you to illuminate my paths so that I can see the light of Your glory. You are my everything, and I want to stay with You. I want to be where Your plans are. I love You.

In Jesus’ Name. Amen.

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Kelly uplifts believers with boosts of faith; be encouraged weekly by getting Kelly’s blog posts by email. Kelly, a cheerleader of faith, is a blogger, national speaker, and author of Take Every Thought Captive, Rest Now, Battle Ready, and Fear Fighting. Kelly loves seeing the power of prayer in action. She loves seeing the expression on women’s faces when they realize – their God is faithful! Kelly’s work has been featured on The Today Show, CBN’s 700 Club, Relevant and Today’s Christian Woman. 

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