7 Ways to Pray Effectively

Updated Oct 11, 2024
7 Ways to Pray Effectively

I have been focused on prayer a lot this season. I find myself asking God, "How do we make our prayers matter? How are they heard? Is there an effective way to pray?"

Prayer is one of the most powerful tools we have as believers, but it’s often misunderstood. A lot of us wonder if we're praying "right" or if our prayers are making any impact. Trust me, I’ve been there too. But here’s the thing: prayer isn’t about using the perfect words or having all the right formulas. It’s about the heart and the faith behind it. So, let’s dig into what the Bible says about how to pray effectively and what it really means to connect with God in a way that moves mountains.

As I mentioned in my last article, our nation today has mountains that need moving—mountains of sin, lies, deception, and confusion.

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1. Pray with Faith

The foundation of effective prayer is faith. Without faith, we’re just speaking empty words into the air. Jesus said in Matthew 21:22, “If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer.” Notice He didn’t say, "If you repeat the right phrases," or "If you pray for a long time." He said, if you believe.

Effective prayer starts with a heart that fully trusts God. It's the kind of faith that says, “God, I know You can do this. I don’t care what the circumstances look like or how impossible this situation seems—You are able.” If we don’t believe that God is going to answer, why are we praying in the first place? Hebrews 11:6 reminds us, “Without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.”

So, step one in praying effectively is to come to God with confidence and faith, believing that He not only hears you - but is fully capable of answering in His perfect way and timing.

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2. Pray According to God’s Will

2. Pray According to God’s Will

This one is crucial. Many times, we treat prayer like a spiritual wish list—we tell God what we want and expect Him to deliver. But effective prayer aligns our hearts with God's will, not just our desires.

In 1 John 5:14-15, it says, “This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of him.”

Praying in alignment with God’s will is the key to seeing results. And how do we know His will? By spending time in His Word. The more we know God's Word, the more we understand His heart and His desires for us. Through this relationship, our prayers start aligning with His plans.

That’s why Jesus taught us to pray, “Your kingdom come, Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven” (Matthew 6:10). When we pray for His will to be done, we’re inviting His perfect plan into our lives and situations, trusting that He knows best.

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Mother Praying with Your Daily Prayer in 2023

3. Pray with a Pure Heart

If we want our prayers to be effective, we need to come to God with a clean heart. I’m talking about repentance. Sin can be a barrier between us and God, and the Bible makes it clear that unconfessed sin can hinder our prayers. Psalm 66:18 says, “If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened.”

We’re not talking about being perfect—because none of us are. But we must be willing to come before God, admit our wrongs, and ask for forgiveness. We must despise sin. We must desire a clean heart for God to hear our prayers.  1 John 1:9 assures us"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.”

The enemy would love for us to keep holding onto sin and guilt because he knows it weakens our prayer life. But when we come before God in humility, asking Him to search our hearts and cleanse us, our prayers regain their power. It’s like removing static from a phone line—you can hear God clearly, and He can move through you more powerfully.

Many of you have static before God as you pray because you continue to support people, leaders, and political parties that not only stand for sin but also promote sin for others. You prefer the packaging, or the polished look, of one party versus another, and you vote for people—not for Godly agendas.

It is nearly impossible to find a political party today that is completely righteous and moving according to Biblical principles – but there is always one party or leader who more closely aligns with the Biblical Christian faith.  You should support the party that best supports your Christianity, not your race, your gender, or your political opinion, because it is through our faith that Jesus shines in a dark world.

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4. Pray with Persistence

Let me be honest—effective prayer requires persistence. Too many of us give up way too soon. We ask God for something once or twice, and when we don’t see immediate results, we stop praying. But Jesus taught us to keep praying, to keep knocking, to keep asking.

In Luke 18:1-8, Jesus shares the parable of the persistent widow, a woman who kept coming to a judge, asking for justice. She didn’t stop until she got what she needed. Jesus said, “Will not God bring about justice for His chosen ones, who cry out to Him day and night? Will He keep putting them off?” Persistence in prayer isn’t about annoying God or wearing Him down—it’s about demonstrating our trust in Him and our determination to wait on His timing.

Remember, delayed answers don’t mean denied answers. Sometimes, God is doing something behind the scenes, and our persistence is part of the process. So don’t stop praying. Don’t give up just because you don’t see results right away. Keep knocking. Keep seeking. God is faithful.

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5. Pray in the Name of Jesus

The authority in our prayers comes through Jesus. That’s why we pray in His name. When we pray “In Jesus’ Name,” we’re not just tacking a phrase onto the end of our prayer, we’re invoking His power, His authority, and His victory.

Jesus said in John 14:13-14, “And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it.”

Too often I hear Christians pray and they don’t humble themselves and recognize that they are praying in Jesus’ name. As if they are embarrassed by Christ, a lack of boldness about the name of Jesus is a huge hindrance to prayer. In His name alone can we do and receive all things.

Praying in Jesus’ name means we come to God not based on our own righteousness or merit but on the finished work of Christ! It’s His name that gives our prayers power, and it’s His name that causes heaven to respond.

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6. Pray with Gratitude

Gratitude is a game-changer in prayer! Philippians 4:6 tells us, Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.”

There’s something powerful about thanking God even before you see the answer. Gratitude shifts your focus from what you don’t have - to what God has already done. It builds faith and reminds you of His faithfulness. When we pray with thanksgiving, we’re essentially saying, “God, I trust You. I believe You’re already working, even if I don’t see it yet.”

Effective prayer isn’t just about making requests; it’s about having a heart that recognizes God’s goodness in every season, regardless of the outcome.

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7. Pray with the Help of the Holy Spirit

7. Pray with the Help of the Holy Spirit

Sometimes, we don’t even know what to pray for. We’re overwhelmed, confused, or unsure about how to approach God. That’s where the Holy Spirit comes in. The Bible tells us that the Spirit helps us in our weakness.

Romans 8:26-27 says, “In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.”

We don’t have to have it all figured out. Sometimes, the most effective prayers are when we just say, “Holy Spirit, help me. I don’t even know where to begin.” And He steps in, aligning our hearts with God’s will and guiding us in prayer.

Praying effectively is not about perfecting it; it’s about praying with faith, persistence, humility, and alignment with God’s will. It’s about trusting in the power of Jesus’ name and allowing the Holy Spirit to guide you when words fail. Whether you're praying for a breakthrough in your personal life, for the country, or for someone else, God hears every word.

So, pray boldly and consistently, and believe that God is moving—because He is.

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Cynthia GarrettCynthia Garrett broke barriers when she became the first African American woman in the U.S. to host a network late-night show, NBC’s Later with Cynthia Garrett. She is currently seen on TBN and Salem Media networks, as well as on Fox News and other news outlets, addressing cultural issues and today’s news. The Cynthia Garrett Podcasts premiere weekly on all major podcast platforms.
A highly sought-after speaker, author, TV host, and ordained minister, Garrett is the author of The Naked Truth: Reclaiming Sexual Freedom in a Culture of Lies (2024), I Choose Victory: Moving from Victim to Victor (2020), and Prodigal Daughter: A Journey Home to Identity (2016). For more information, visit
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Originally published Thursday, 26 September 2024.

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