But I Did Everything Right! - In His Grip - Week of March 12

But I Did Everything Right! 
By Sharon W. Betters, Executive Director, MARKINC Ministries

A friend writes: Funny how when people would ask me, 'Why would God do that? Why am I struggling so much?' my first gut reaction was to impatiently retort, 'just trust Him, He knows better than you do, and He has a plan...' but now...Now that I'm in this situation where my husband and I did EVERYTHING RIGHT and nothing is going the way we hoped.  We prayed, we asked God to direct each step, we sought counsel from people wiser than us, and now we're living in a nightmare...all I can think is, "How could this not work out?  We did everything right!"  Knowing He knows me better than I do, and He has a better plan, well that doesn't make it easy, and certainly doesn't bring me comfort right now...How could anything be better than what we wanted to do? Help!  What did we miss?"   

My response:  This is a hard question, and my answer might not satisfy your hunger for the pain to go away. But this is what has helped me. For more on this question, read at Markinc.org

In His Grip,

Sharon W. Betters
Executive Director
MARKINC Ministries

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