8 do not hastily bring into court; for what will you do in the end, when your neighbor puts you to shame? 9 Argue your case with your neighbor himself, and do not disclose another's secret; 10 lest he who hears you bring shame upon you, and your ill repute have no end.
Matthew Henry's Commentary on Proverbs 25:8-10
Commentary on Proverbs 25:8-10
(Read Proverbs 25:8-10)
To be hasty in beginning strife, will bring into difficulties. War must at length end, and might better be prevented. It is so in private quarrels; do all thou canst to settle the matter.