231 Sarah lived 127 years. 2 Sarah died in Kiriath Arba, present-day Hebron, in the land of Canaan. Abraham mourned for Sarah and wept.
3 Then Abraham got up from mourning his dead wife and spoke to the Hittites: 4 "I know I'm only an outsider here among you, but sell me a burial plot so that I can bury my dead decently. 5 The Hittites responded, 6 "Why, you're no mere outsider here with us, you're a prince of God! Bury your dead wife in the best of our burial sites. None of us will refuse you a place for burial." 7 Then Abraham got up, bowed respectfully to the people of the land, the Hittites, 8 and said, "If you're serious about helping me give my wife a proper burial, intercede for me with Ephron son of Zohar. 9 Ask him to sell me the cave of Machpelah that he owns, the one at the end of his land. Ask him to sell it to me at its full price for a burial plot, with you as witnesses." 10 Ephron was part of the local Hittite community. Then Ephron the Hittite spoke up, answering Abraham with all the Hittites who were part of the town council listening: 11 "Oh no, my master! I couldn't do that. The field is yours - a gift. I'll give it and the cave to you. With my people as witnesses, I give it to you. Bury your deceased wife." 12 Abraham bowed respectfully before the assembled council 13 and answered Ephron: "Please allow me - I want to pay the price of the land; take my money so that I can go ahead and bury my wife." 14 Then Ephron answered Abraham 15 "If you insist, master. What's four hundred silver shekels between us? Now go ahead and bury your wife."
16 Abraham accepted Ephron's offer and paid out the sum that Ephron had named before the town council of Hittites - four hundred silver shekels at the current exchange rate. 17 That's how Ephron's field next to Mamre - the field, its cave, and all the trees within its borders - 18 became Abraham's property. The town council of Hittites witnessed the transaction. 19 Abraham then proceeded to bury his wife Sarah in the cave in the field of Machpelah that is next to Mamre, present-day Hebron, in the land of Canaan 20 The field and its cave went from the Hittites into Abraham's possession as a burial plot.
241 Abraham was now an old man. God had blessed Abraham in every way. 2 Abraham spoke to the senior servant in his household, the one in charge of everything he had, "Put your hand under my thigh 3 and swear by God - God of Heaven, God of Earth - that you will not get a wife for my son from among the young women of the Canaanites here, 4 but will go to the land of my birth and get a wife for my son Isaac." 5 The servant answered, "But what if the woman refuses to leave home and come with me? Do I then take your son back to your home country?" 6 Abraham said, "Oh no. Never. By no means are you to take my son back there. 7 God, the God of Heaven, took me from the home of my father and from the country of my birth and spoke to me in solemn promise, 'I'm giving this land to your descendants.' This God will send his angel ahead of you to get a wife for my son. 8 And if the woman won't come, you are free from this oath you've sworn to me. But under no circumstances are you to take my son back there." 9 So the servant put his hand under the thigh of his master Abraham and gave his solemn oath.
10 The servant took ten of his master's camels and, loaded with gifts from his master, traveled to Aram Naharaim and the city of Nahor. 11 Outside the city, he made the camels kneel at a well. It was evening, the time when the women came to draw water. 12 He prayed, "O God, God of my master Abraham, make things go smoothly this day; treat my master Abraham well! 13 As I stand here by the spring while the young women of the town come out to get water, 14 let the girl to whom I say, 'Lower your jug and give me a drink,' and who answers, 'Drink, and let me also water your camels' - let her be the woman you have picked out for your servant Isaac. Then I'll know that you're working graciously behind the scenes for my master." 15 It so happened that the words were barely out of his mouth when Rebekah, the daughter of Bethuel whose mother was Milcah the wife of Nahor, Abraham's brother, came out with a water jug on her shoulder. 16 The girl was stunningly beautiful, a pure virgin. She went down to the spring, filled her jug, and came back up. 17 The servant ran to meet her and said, "Please, can I have a sip of water from your jug?" 18 She said, "Certainly, drink!" And she held the jug so that he could drink. 19 When he had satisfied his thirst she said, "I'll get water for your camels, too, until they've drunk their fill." 20 She promptly emptied her jug into the trough and ran back to the well to fill it, and she kept at it until she had watered all the camels. 21 The man watched, silent. Was this God's answer? Had God made his trip a success or not? 22 When the camels had finished drinking, the man brought out gifts, a gold nose ring weighing a little over a quarter of an ounce and two arm bracelets weighing about four ounces, and gave them to her. 23 He asked her, "Tell me about your family? Whose daughter are you? Is there room in your father's house for us to stay the night?" 24 She said, "I'm the daughter of Bethuel the son of Milcah and Nahor. 25 And there's plenty of room in our house for you to stay - and lots of straw and feed besides." 26 At this the man bowed in worship before God 27 and prayed, "Blessed be God, God of my master Abraham: How generous and true you've been to my master; you've held nothing back. You led me right to the door of my master's brother!" 28 And the girl was off and running, telling everyone in her mother's house what had happened.
29 Rebekah had a brother named Laban. Laban ran outside to the man at the spring. 30 He had seen the nose ring and the bracelets on his sister and had heard her say, "The man said this and this and this to me." So he went to the man and there he was, still standing with his camels at the spring. 31 Laban welcomed him: "Come on in, blessed of God! Why are you standing out here? I've got the house ready for you; and there's also a place for your camels." 32 So the man went into the house. The camels were unloaded and given straw and feed. Water was brought to bathe the feet of the man and the men with him. 33 Then Laban brought out food. But the man said, "I won't eat until I tell my story." Laban said, "Go ahead; tell us." 34 The servant said, "I'm the servant of Abraham. 35 God has blessed my master - he's a great man; God has given him sheep and cattle, silver and gold, servants and maidservants, camels and donkeys. 36 And then to top it off, Sarah, my master's wife, gave him a son in her old age and he has passed everything on to his son. 37 My master made me promise, 'Don't get a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites in whose land I live. 38 No, go to my father's home, back to my family, and get a wife for my son there.' 39 I said to my master, 'But what if the woman won't come with me?' 40 He said, 'God before whom I've walked faithfully will send his angel with you and he'll make things work out so that you'll bring back a wife for my son from my family, from the house of my father. 41 Then you'll be free from the oath. If you go to my family and they won't give her to you, you will also be free from the oath.' 42 "Well, when I came this very day to the spring, I prayed, 'God, God of my master Abraham, make things turn out well in this task I've been given. 43 I'm standing at this well. When a young woman comes here to draw water and I say to her, Please, give me a sip of water from your jug, 44 and she says, Not only will I give you a drink, I'll also water your camels - let that woman be the wife God has picked out for my master's son.' 45 "I had barely finished offering this prayer, when Rebekah arrived, her jug on her shoulder. She went to the spring and drew water and I said, 'Please, can I have a drink?' 46 She didn't hesitate. She held out her jug and said, 'Drink; and when you're finished I'll also water your camels.' I drank, and she watered the camels. 47 I asked her, 'Whose daughter are you?' She said, 'The daughter of Bethuel whose parents were Nahor and Milcah.' I gave her a ring for her nose, bracelets for her arms, 48 and bowed in worship to God. I praised God, the God of my master Abraham who had led me straight to the door of my master's family to get a wife for his son. 49 "Now, tell me what you are going to do. If you plan to respond with a generous yes, tell me. But if not, tell me plainly so I can figure out what to do next." 50 Laban and Bethuel answered, "This is totally from God. We have no say in the matter, either yes or no. 51 Rebekah is yours: Take her and go; let her be the wife of your master's son, as God has made plain." 52 When Abraham's servant heard their decision, he bowed in worship before God. 53 Then he brought out gifts of silver and gold and clothing and gave them to Rebekah. He also gave expensive gifts to her brother and mother.
54 He and his men had supper and spent the night. But first thing in the morning they were up. He said, "Send me back to my master." 55 Her brother and mother said, "Let the girl stay a while, say another ten days, and then go." 56 He said, "Oh, don't make me wait! God has worked everything out so well - send me off to my master." 57 They said, "We'll call the girl; we'll ask her." 58 They called Rebekah and asked her, "Do you want to go with this man?" She said, "I'm ready to go." 59 So they sent them off, their sister Rebekah with her nurse, and Abraham's servant with his men. 60 And they blessed Rebekah saying, You're our sister - live bountifully! And your children, triumphantly! 61 Rebekah and her young maids mounted the camels and followed the man. The servant took Rebekah and set off for home.
62 Isaac was living in the Negev. He had just come back from a visit to Beer Lahai Roi. 63 In the evening he went out into the field; while meditating he looked up and saw camels coming. 64 When Rebekah looked up and saw Isaac, she got down from her camel 65 and asked the servant, "Who is that man out in the field coming toward us?" "That is my master." She took her veil and covered herself. 66 After the servant told Isaac the whole story of the trip, 67 Isaac took Rebekah into the tent of his mother Sarah. He married Rebekah and she became his wife and he loved her. So Isaac found comfort after his mother's death.
71 "Don't pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults - unless, of course, you want the same treatment. 2 That critical spirit has a way of boomeranging. 3 It's easy to see a smudge on your neighbor's face and be oblivious to the ugly sneer on your own. 4 Do you have the nerve to say, 'Let me wash your face for you,' when your own face is distorted by contempt? 5 It's this whole traveling road-show mentality all over again, playing a holier-than-thou part instead of just living your part. Wipe that ugly sneer off your own face, and you might be fit to offer a washcloth to your neighbor. 6 "Don't be flip with the sacred. Banter and silliness give no honor to God. Don't reduce holy mysteries to slogans. In trying to be relevant, you're only being cute and inviting sacrilege.
7 "Don't bargain with God. Be direct. Ask for what you need. 8 This isn't a cat-and-mouse, hide-and-seek game we're in. 9 If your child asks for bread, do you trick him with sawdust? 10 If he asks for fish, do you scare him with a live snake on his plate? 11 As bad as you are, you wouldn't think of such a thing. You're at least decent to your own children. So don't you think the God who conceived you in love will be even better?
12 "Here is a simple, rule-of-thumb guide for behavior: Ask yourself what you want people to do for you, then grab the initiative and do it for them. Add up God's Law and Prophets and this is what you get.
13 "Don't look for shortcuts to God. The market is flooded with surefire, easygoing formulas for a successful life that can be practiced in your spare time. Don't fall for that stuff, even though crowds of people do. 14 The way to life - to God! - is vigorous and requires total attention.
15 "Be wary of false preachers who smile a lot, dripping with practiced sincerity. Chances are they are out to rip you off some way or other. Don't be impressed with charisma; look for character. 16 Who preachers are is the main thing, not what they say. A genuine leader will never exploit your emotions or your pocketbook. These diseased trees with their bad apples are going to be chopped down and burned. 17 18 19 20
21 "Knowing the correct password - saying 'Master, Master,' for instance - isn't going to get you anywhere with me. What is required is serious obedience - doing what my Father wills. 22 I can see it now - at the Final Judgment thousands strutting up to me and saying, 'Master, we preached the Message, we bashed the demons, our God-sponsored projects had everyone talking.' 23 And do you know what I am going to say? 'You missed the boat. All you did was use me to make yourselves important. You don't impress me one bit. You're out of here.'
24 "These words I speak to you are not incidental additions to your life, homeowner improvements to your standard of living. They are foundational words, words to build a life on. If you work these words into your life, you are like a smart carpenter who built his house on solid rock. 25 Rain poured down, the river flooded, a tornado hit - but nothing moved that house. It was fixed to the rock. 26 "But if you just use my words in Bible studies and don't work them into your life, you are like a stupid carpenter who built his house on the sandy beach. 27 When a storm rolled in and the waves came up, it collapsed like a house of cards." 28 When Jesus concluded his address, the crowd burst into applause. They had never heard teaching like this. 29 It was apparent that he was living everything he was saying - quite a contrast to their religion teachers! This was the best teaching they had ever heard.
