A Prayer to Let Go When You're Trying to Hold it All Together
By Heidi Vegh
"Then God said, 'Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. And let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, the birds of the heavens, the livestock, all the earth, and every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.'" - Genesis 1:26
This world is a harsh place. When we aren’t leaning on Jesus', our to-do lists can be overwhelming, especially when we feel we must do it all. Perhaps you have a lot on your plate. You are responsible for a lot, and you fear that if you let go, everything will crumble and fall apart. When God created us, He made us for Himself. He created us to live in harmony with Him and rely on Him entirely for our needs. We are created in His image, and He cares for us. He has jobs for us to do. But He wants us to do them beside Him, for His glory, not for selfish gain. When we only think of ourselves and what we will personally gain from striving to be in control, we will stumble.
When sin entered the world, so did pride and self-sufficiency. We are told to grin and bear it, to lock in and hold on, gritting our teeth as we strive to manifest, control, and keep all things in place. At some point, we will break. All of us. We are not created to endure, control, and hold everything together, and when we strive to do these things, we will eventually break under pressure.
In Isaiah 40: 29-31, we read, "He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and exhausted, and young men stumble and fall, but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary; they will walk and not be faint."
When you feel like your own strength is failing, call out to Jesus. When you feel like the world and all its expectations are crushing you, call out to Jesus. When you feel like you can't go on, call out to Jesus.
Let's pray:
God. It’s too much. I am crushing under the weight of all the expectations. I am crumbling under the weight of what others expect of me, and I am suffocating under the expectations that I have put on myself. I can't do it alone. I am trying to hold it all together, but my weak grip is weakening. I need you to hold me up, Jesus. I am calling out to you in my time of need. I can't do this anymore. I want to rely on you solely for my strength to avoid getting to the end of myself. However, I understand that sometimes it is the getting to the end of myself that draws me to you. I thank you for pursuing me, Lord.
Thank you for loving me enough not to let me continue walking a road of self-sufficiency that leaves me dry and maxed out. Lord, please renew me today. Show me what to let go of. Show me where I being prideful in my actions, and forgive me for not relying on you. Thank you for your patience while waiting for me to rely on you. Thank you for loving me enough to extend your hands to help pull me from the pit. Thank you for your peace, your joy, your strength. I trust that when I let go, you will catch me. When I let go of all the things I have the illusion of controlling, you will still have your hand in every detail. I don't have the strength to do it all; I know that is not how you created me. Help me to let go.
In your precious name, we pray, amen.
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Heidi Vegh is a writer, speaker, and ministry leader based in Western Washington. A remarried mother of four, she is navigating blended family life after losing her first husband to cancer in 2013. Through her writing and speaking, Heidi encourages those who have experienced loss, offering hope and practical guidance for the journey toward healing and renewed life.
She is the author of The Hard Journey to the Good: A Widow’s Journey from Loss to New Life, a heartfelt account of grief, faith, and rebuilding after devastating loss, available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble.
You can find Heidi at her website mrsheidivegh.com where she shares devotionals and reflections on grief, healing, motherhood, faith, and the beauty and complexity of blended family life through her monthly newsletter. She holds a degree in Creative Writing and English from Southern New Hampshire University and serves as Ministry Director at her local church, where she is passionate about helping women grow in faith and experience the transforming love of Jesus.
You can find her on Instagram @mrsheidivegh and SubStack: https://substack.com/
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