A Prayer for When You Need to Speak the Truth in Love
By Rachael Adams
Bible Reading:
“Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ.” - Ephesians 4:15
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I left the party with a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach. The next morning, the conviction still lingered. As a natural peacemaker, confrontation is deeply uncomfortable for me. But this wasn’t about comfort—it was about obedience. I sensed the Holy Spirit prompting me to reach out to the host. I didn’t want to. But I knew that if I didn’t, it would feel like the elephant in the room every time I saw anyone who had attended.
So with sweaty palms and a shaky voice, I made the call. I shared gently but honestly. I explained that I believed, as Christians, our lives should look different from the world. While spiritual growth is a process, we’re called to leave behind our old patterns of sin and reflect Christ in both word and deed. I encouraged us to consider whether our actions that night aligned with our faith and values.
There was a pause on the other end of the line, followed by a gracious response: “You’re right, and I’m sorry. We should hold ourselves to a higher standard. Thank you for holding us accountable.” Relief swept over me. It had been awkward and uncomfortable, but necessary. I was thankful I had listened to the Spirit of truth (John 16:13), who convicted me and gave me the courage to speak.
As hard as it can be, we all need people in our lives who are willing to speak the truth in love. Friends who build us up but also call us out when we’ve gone astray. People who sharpen us and keep us aligned with God’s best for us. No matter how far along we are in our faith journey, we’re still vulnerable to temptation, pride, and sin. Even those closest to God—like King David—have fallen short.
David’s story reminds us of the power of truth spoken in love. After abusing his power, committing adultery with Bathsheba, and orchestrating her husband’s death, David was confronted by the prophet Nathan. Nathan didn’t approach him with condemnation, but with bold honesty and deep care. His courageous intervention led David to repentance and restoration. Psalm 51 was born from that moment—a raw, repentant cry from a humbled heart.
Like David, we need friends who will speak into our blind spots. And like Nathan, we must be willing to speak truth when the Spirit prompts us, no matter how uncomfortable it may feel. The enemy would love for us to keep quiet when sin is present. He thrives in secrecy, distortion, and fear. But God works through clarity, light, and grace. He invites us to grow up into maturity in Christ, not just for ourselves but for the sake of others.
Do you have a Nathan in your life? If not, ask God to send one. And ask Him to make you one for someone else. Speaking truth in love doesn’t mean we’re harsh or self-righteous—it means we care enough to risk discomfort for the sake of someone’s soul. A faithful friend who speaks with love and conviction is a gift of grace.
Let’s Pray:
Father, guide and teach me what is true. Plant your truth deep in my heart so I’m not deceived by the lies of the world or the schemes of the enemy. Remove any apathy or fear that keeps me silent when You call me to speak. Please give me the wisdom and grace to know when and how to lovingly confront those I care about. Help me receive truth with humility when others speak into my life. Surround me with people who sharpen, encourage, and point me back to You. Let my words be seasoned with grace and rooted in love. May my relationships reflect Your desire for holiness and mutual growth. And in all things, let me grow up into Christ, the One who is truth and love. In Jesus’ name, amen.
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