Devotionals

The Four Spiritual Secrets - November 20, 2017

MBC Daily Devotional

A Two-way Street

 “For if I make you sorrowful, then who is he who makes me glad but the one who is made sorrowful by me?” - (2 Corinthians 2:2)

Every relationship we have is a two-way street. According to the Apostle Paul whatever we send down that street comes back up that street and has a dynamic impact on that relationship. Jesus states this same truth with a positive spin on it when He teaches hypercritical people, “With the measure you use, it will be measured back to you.” (Matthew 7:2)

This was a marketplace metaphor in the culture to which Jesus came. If you were selling oats and a fellow merchant in that marketplace was selling wheat, when you bought from each other you could request them to use their bushel standard of measurement. Paraphrased, this was saying that whatever standard you use when you give to the other person in a relationship, they will use when they give to you. All of this means that we cannot control the weather or rainy days, but we can control the emotional climate that surrounds us in a relationship.

Communication is not only what is said but what is heard. It is not only what is said but what is felt. How does the communication you are contributing in a relationship make the other person in that relationship feel? If you’re sending negative waves into that other person’s life, is that likely to inspire them to send positive waves in your direction?

Paul gave us another great teaching on this subject when he wrote, “Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for the building up of others, that it may impart grace to the hearers.” (Ephesians 4:29)

I challenge you to apply these teachings of Jesus and Paul in your relationships.


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