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New Life daily devotion - Mar. 31, 2011

Focus on Being
Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.                                                 Romans 12:10

How can you begin breaking through the myth of “you-are-what-you-do” and see that your true identity is in Jesus Christ.  Once you grasp that, you can begin relating to other people apart from what they do.  We must open up our schedules, set aside our Day-Timers, and get to the business of allowing our identity in Christ to liberate and transform our human relationships.

A friend of mine meets each week with a group of four other friends to do what we rarely do.  They purposely avoid talking about what they do in order to talk about who they are and how they feel.  They’re learning to peel away the layers of façade to give and receive the nurture, affirmation, and encouragement they desperately need but are often fearful to seek.

Recently my friend shared a painful issue with his friends.  His father lays dying in a nursing home.  He’s incapacitated.  His mind is totally gone.  My friend visits him, and helps dress and care for him.  What he wants more than anything is to hear these words from his father before he dies: “You’re a good child.”

Friends can share these painful and vulnerable feelings and offer consolation and encouragement in the group setting as one deals with the pain and loss.  There aren’t enough people who function together as these five do. 

“Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, to all the people you can.”
- John Wesley (1703-1791)



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Taken from The Life Recovery Devotional: Thirty Meditations from Scripture for Each Step in Recovery by Stephen Arterburn and David Stoop. Copyright © 1991 by Stephen Arterburn and David Stoop. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc. All rights reserved.

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