“Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends.”
>John 15:13, niv
We love others
who meet our needs,
whom we get along with,
who make us feel good,
who do things for us,
whom we like.
In essence, our first concern is for our own well-being and having our own needs met, and we love others in proportion to the extent they fulfill those purposes. Our second concern is that others respond positively to our overtures; if they don’t, we refuse to continue to love them. But Jesus outlined a radically different kind of love—a love that puts the needs and well-being of others before our own to the extent we would sacrifice our time, our energy, our money, and our thoughts in order to demonstrate it. We are to demonstrate it to others whom we may not like or with whom we may be incompatible or who respond negatively or who may never do anything for us in return! Now that’s radical!
My Heart’s Cry, (Nashville: W Publishing, 2002).
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