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John is the author of I'm OK--You're Not: The Message We're Sending Nonbelievers and Why We Should Stop (NavPress); Penguins, Pain and the Whole Shebang (Seabury Books); and co-author, with Richard Lederer, of Comma Sense: A Fundamental Guide to Punctuation (St. Martin's). Both Penguins and Comma Sense won San Diego Book Awards for best books in their respective categories (Religious/Spiritual, and How To/Reference). He is also co-author, with Stephen Arterburn (Every Man's Battle) of Being Christian: Exploring Where You, God and Life Connect, Midlife Manual For Men: Finding Significance in the Second Half, and Regret-Free Living: Tools for Building Strong, Healthy Relationships.

As e-books on Scribd.com, John has made available for downloading or reading online, collections from his blog, entitled Seven Reasons Women Stay in Abusive Relationships (and How to Defeat Each One of Them),  How to Make a Living Writing, and My Funniest Stuff. He has also made available his book, I'm OK--You're Not: The Message We're Sending Nonbelievers and Why We Should Stop.

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Thursday, October 8, 2009 | 15:26 PM
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All Rape is Hate Rape

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Some additional thoughts relative to the issue I addressed in Hollywood: Go Polanski Yourself.

The argument most often conjured in a rapist's defense are that the victim of the rape wanted it. The "proof" most often offered in support of that contention is the rape victim's history of sexual promiscuity.

So let's be real clear about this:

Just because you're generous with your money doesn't mean you want to be robbed. That's why the victim's sexual history is not admissible as evidence in a rape case. The law recognizes that it has no bearing on anything relevant to a rape.

And never forget rape isn't about sex. It's about the sustained, purposeful execution of violence. It's about the purely evil need to control and humiliate a weaker being. A rapist isn't getting off on sex. He's getting off on making his victim beg, cry, and scream from pain.

Finally---and this of course is particularly germane to the Polanski case---a mother has absolutely no legal right to facilitate a crime being perpetrated against her daughter. You're not allowed to sell your child into slavery; you're not allowed to use your child to make pornography; you're not allowed to help your child get raped. "Mother" doesn't mean inured from the laws of man, nature, or God. (And, for the record, we have no idea whether or not Samantha Geimer's mother in any way facilitated her daughter being raped by the cretin Polanski. We hope not, of course.)

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