I reject this idea because the Bible doesn't teach it. In fact, it teaches the opposite.
The Bible teaches that God is sovereign, that he rules over all things.
There are emotional reasons as well for believing in God's absolute sovereignty. If I rejected the sovereignty of God over all things including my will and my life, I would lose the very God, the very power that stands behind all the promises that make my life livable in pain.
So when you surrender the sovereignty of God in order to get him off the hook of calamity, you also lose him at the point where you need power to endure the calamity and see all the calamity turned for good. If God is going to be rejected here, then what have I got except God-less calamity?
If that is what people want to choose, they can make that existential decision; but it would be unbiblical and, I think, it would be folly for life.
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